Cosplay Isn’t Public Property: Why Consent Still Matters at Gaming Conventions

Birmingham recently became the stage for an unusual convergence of events. Three major conventions—DreamHack’s UK debut, MegaCon’s celebration of anime and pop culture, and the Arnold Sports Festival—took place at the same venue. On paper, it sounded like a unique and entertaining crossover. In reality, while there were moments of humor and collaboration, the weekend also exposed an ongoing issue: the mistreatment of cosplayers.

The mix of audiences led to some lighthearted and creative interactions. Fitness enthusiasts and cosplayers teamed up for playful content, highlighting the contrast between their worlds. These moments showed the potential of such events to bring communities together in unexpected ways.

However, not all interactions were positive. Many cosplayers reported disruptive and invasive behavior throughout the event. Instances included people interrupting photoshoots, recording videos without permission, and approaching participants with uncomfortable or mocking questions—all for the sake of online content. What should have been a safe and expressive environment instead became frustrating for many attendees.

Unfortunately, this isn’t a new problem. The phrase “cosplay is not consent” has been part of the community for years, serving as a reminder that wearing a costume does not give others the right to touch, harass, or invade personal boundaries. While awareness has grown, incidents like these show that the message hasn’t fully sunk in.

Consent goes beyond physical interaction. A major concern raised by attendees was the number of people filming or photographing cosplayers without asking. While some argue that recording in public spaces is legally allowed, legality doesn’t always equal respect. Capturing someone’s image without permission—whether out of admiration or for content—can feel intrusive and uncomfortable.

This issue extends beyond cosplay. Many individuals who spend time in public gaming spaces, such as arcades, have experienced similar situations. Being recorded mid-activity or having a camera pointed directly at you can create a sense of vulnerability. Even if it’s technically permitted, it often feels like a violation of personal space.

The solution is simple but often overlooked: ask first. A quick conversation and a moment of respect can make a significant difference. Most cosplayers are happy to share their work when approached politely. The problem arises when that basic courtesy is ignored.

It’s important to note that the negative behavior did not define the entire event or any specific group. Many attendees, including those who participated in multiple conventions, spoke out in support of cosplayers and condemned the harassment. The majority understand that these events are meant to be inclusive spaces where people can celebrate their interests freely.

That said, a small number of individuals can still have a large impact. Reports highlighted a content creator who deliberately approached cosplayers with uncomfortable questions and disrupted group photos during a livestream. Actions like these not only disrespect individuals but also damage the atmosphere of the entire event.

At their core, conventions are about community. Whether someone is passionate about gaming, fitness, crafting costumes, or esports, the goal is the same: to connect with others and enjoy shared interests. Maintaining that environment requires mutual respect.

Something as simple as asking before taking a photo or recording a video can help preserve the positive spirit of these gatherings. If conventions are to remain welcoming spaces, attendees must prioritize empathy over entitlement.